The relationship between the coach and the coachee is crucial for a successful coaching process. One of the biggest criteria to make this happening is the mindset or attitude of the coach. Systemic coaches act on the assumption that the client is the expert of her or his life. Respect for this autonomy of the coachee as well as curiosity, active listening, impartiality, appreciation for the existing life strategies and using existing resources and strengths are all great qualities and the right mindset for a professional coach.